Tuesday, April 1, 2014

A Simple Choice

Just a simple choice, right now, between fear and love. The eyes of fear want you to put bigger locks on your doors, buy guns, close yourself off. The eyes of love instead see all of us as one.

     - Bill Hicks, Revelations (1993)

I've chosen to share some words that someone shared with me recently. They helped me out, maybe they'll help someone else:

I've been there, bro, and it's a shitty feeling. But the pain and sorrow you feel doesn't compare to that of your family and loved ones who truly couldn't deal with not having you in their lives...believe me, I know all this now and I'm a better man because of it. It, all these conversations, the feelings, thoughts, work, parents, brother, cousins, wedding, house, trials and tribulations...ALL happens for a reason.

And no matter how dark a place you find yourself, I promise when you put yourself in the position to see it from the point of view of people who feel the way about losing you that you feel about her, you will see the light no matter how far away or dim it seems. I swear, one way or another you will be stronger and the pain will seem like nothing compared to the pain you save your family and friends by losing yourself forever!

I know this to be FACT, cuz. And every day I think about my future and I feel no more pain from the past.

Sunday, March 23, 2014

5 Lies You Tell Yourself That Keep You From Being Happy

I've written a bit before about the ways that perception and language shape reality. The things you believe affect the way that you see the world, and the way you see the world shapes the way that you interact with it. This includes the people around you, your work, and your physical environment.

Everything starts with you. What you tell yourself about yourself and your experiences will affect the way that you feel about yourself and the world around you. For many of us, this is a somewhat somnambulistic process...we're not even aware of it, it's something we do unconsciously.

But it doesn't have to be that way. It begins with a choice - the choice to wake up and take responsibility for yourself. Pay attention to what you're telling yourself and, if you need to, start telling yourself something new. As you change the way that you think, your own level of happiness will improve and spread into other areas of your life. So watch your thoughts, see if you're telling yourself any of these lies.

Sunday, July 14, 2013

This Isn't Where I Parked My Car!

I was looking through some stuff and found this snippet of an old, lost conversation with someone I've forgotten. Sometimes it amazes me - the things I've let into my head, the things that have passed through. A friend of mine once told me, "Joe, you and I have already forgotten more than most people will ever know..."

Well, entire worlds have been lost to the black hole that is my memory. I'm very bird-brained that way. Always on to the next shiny thing. Talking to me must have been frustrating.

Anyway, I got a kick out of seeing this. It's from at least five years ago. I don't care what you think.

Friday, April 5, 2013

From the Vedas to the Magazines

A Short History of Yoga

Mysticism is a word for the philosophy or science of human transformation. Some of you may be familiar with the phrase “the method of Science – the aim of Religion” – which is a particularly succinct way of describing mysticism. Despite its contemporary, “Westernized” manifestation of rhythmic breathing and stretches or poses for building a strong body, yoga is such a system of methodical experimentation, observation, and data collection applied to the self as a means to know oneself, know reality, and unite or harmonize with that reality. This sounds a bit more intense than the activities that go on in gyms and studios across the country, so how did this stuff develop from such a rich spiritual tradition?

Wednesday, January 30, 2013

Be a Person!

I really can not remember at all where I found this meme, but kudos to whoever made it and to Chris Rock for pointing out the idiocy of bandwagon thinking.

I think it's a great and natural kind of thing - to be in and to identify with a particular group - but not to allow that group identity to replace your own thoughts and feelings. Think! Explore your own feelings without judging them as good or bad or weird. Otherwise, you won't really get to know yourself or where you really fit in, will you?